The Be Be

I recently received a comment on this site showing me a new product available for women, and asking me if I would like to receive and review it. It was a product relevant and well suited to my site. Well, that got my interest! So I went and had a look at the website and then eagerly awaited my delivery. When i got the notice from the post office, I very quickly went to retrieve my package. Knowing what was inside I had a sly little smile on my face, if only thay all knew what I was picking up. Not a present form Granny thats for sure. Ok I know the suspense is killing you. Let me tell you a bit about The Be Be, as shown above.

“Discreet and stylish! Compact and glamorous! The Be Be is the first intimate massager you’ll be confident enough to carry around in your handbag and the only massager you won’t be afraid to leave on your bedside table!” Thats how the Australian creators Lisa Hughes and Kristine Morgan describe it on their website. At first I was a little confused, thinking, Is this a vibrator? Well it’s more of an “intimate massager”, designed for external (non penetrative) use. Basically it can be used on all erogenous zones from the clitoris, neck and shoulders down to the thighs and feet. I must say once it used on the clitoris, forget the rest!

I love that it comes in a little satin pouch in a stylish case, almost like a sunglasses case. It is very discreet, if someone stumbled across it in your bag, at first glance they wouldn’t think twice about it being a massager. It also keeps in with my purple theme, remember discussions about my vibrator the “purple penguin”? It matches nicely. I happened to have a spa party at mine the afternoon I received my new toy,what better place to show it off. A room full of women pampering themselves and gossiping about sex and men. Of course I hadn’t sampled the product yet, I did give a few neck massages to the girls who were all rapt. Once I had shown it off it was for my use only. And I must say Im impressed.

I would say most women my age own a vibrator and if they don’t, get one! I myself (ok Im getting personal here, Mum don’t read this bit) prefer the added clitoris stimulator on a vibrator like on The famous “Rabbit” seen on Sex and the City. I’ve talked about this previously and the girls even mention it on the Be Be site. Most women will not orgasm through penetration alone in fact “research has found 70% of women climax through external stimulation? So this is perfect for just that. It is the right size, shape and you can control the speed of the vibrating, after all it is a very sensitive area. It’s not a big scary looking penis shape, so your partner won’t be scared of it, he may even like to use it on you. Anyway, lets just say I love it, get online and get yourself one,and no I don’t make commision from this I just love it!

Please visit the link below it’s $119.90 well spent!

LoveBeingWoman

Posted in Media, Sex and naughty stuff, Uncategorized on August 27th, 2009 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments

The Most Beautiful Man in the World ???

Just a little something to make you smile on a Monday. He’s Greek and he’s 36. His name is Saki Rouva, and he has been voted the most beautiful man in the world. I can’t seem to find, who voted, but I must say he is a very fine specimen of man. Well I wouldn’t kick him out of bed. He is a singer, songwriter, model, actor. He recently came 7th representing Greece in the Euro songvision contest. But alas, he’s not single. Oh but we can look.
Close your mouth girls, stop drooling and get back to work ;-)

Posted in In the News on August 10th, 2009 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments

The Ex Files

Carrie: “Later that night I got to thinking about the x-factor. In mathematics, we learn that x stands for the unknown, a+b=x, but what’s really unknown is what plus what equals friendship with an x. Is this an unsolvable equation? Or is it possible to transform a once passionate love into something that fits nice and easily onto the friendship shelf? I couldn’t help but wonder… can you be friends with an x?”

Well I’ve been wondering that myself. My girlfriend and I have found ourselves in similar positions lately (and I’m not talking in the bedroom). We have both been seeing our ex-boyfriends. Ok, straight away you all start jumping up and down saying “are you stupid, you broke up for a reason, what are you thinking?” Actually I’ve been thinking a lot. On one hand your thinking maybe they’ve changed, after all they are calling you. You have been out together and they tell you they miss you. It’s irresistible. Of course you had an emotional connection with them before so it’s easy to believe it can work again or at least be friends. But you have to ask yourself, is it because you like the attention, or because it’s better than nothing? Is it purely a physical thing, mainly about sex? Is it because you’re scared to be alone, or it’s just too hard to let go?
I believe most men, and I stress “most”, will not change. When it’s comes to cheating, if he cheated on you then how do you know he won’t do it again? This happened to my above girlfriend, she say’s ‘you never trust them again, it’s always in the back of your mind every time he steps out the door without you.” There is no way a relationship like that can survive. My dating bible, “He’s just not that into you” by Greg Behrendt quotes, “cheating is cheating, it doesn’t matter whom it was with or how many times it happened.” In other words there is no acceptable excuse, cheating is a betrayal of trust. It is not done “accidentally”, nor is it your fault. Basically “if he’s having sex with someone else, he’s just not that into you”. And no, you can’t be friends, and no, you certainly can’t have ex sex!

So what about the boyfriend who broke your heart. You thought he was the one, problem is he didn’t. It is hard to let go, deep down you hope he will call and say he wants you back, that he made a mistake. Or he says that you can still be friends. What you have to remember is that there is a reason you broke up in the first place. In your mind you forget all the bad things, you almost glorify your ex. “It’s Called a Break up because it’s Broken” says, “as much as it sucks, you need to force yourself to remember your worst times together, his most irritating habits, and the hard truth that not only can he live without you, but that he’d rather.” Ouch! So true, when you think about it you remember things, like the fact that he didn’t come to your birthday because he was hungover, he only wanted to see you maximum of twice a week and you really only liked him when he drunk anyway. Or that you actually had to call to ask him if he wanted to break up with you. So basically you broke up with yourself! Of course you still want to see them and still be friends, because it’s comfortable and it’s what you know. But 9 times out of ten this will not work and will make it harder to walk away. And really, your letting them have their cake and eat it too. NO more, I want all the cake to myself!

So breaking up is just that. Break up, all over, the end of the relationship, time to move on. Embrace your singledom and what ever you do don’t go back. Like Greg Behrendt says, “if he’s breaking up with you, he’s just not that into you”. It’s that simple.

 

 

Posted in Dating, Love and Relationships on August 6th, 2009 by Blog Admin | | 2 Comments