Lets Talk About Sex- Video Clip
I came across this looking on youtube the other day. I remember when this came out, it caused a bit of a stir. Now it’s so tame compared to all those modern hip hop rap videos, where the women dance around almost naked, (god I sound like my granny). Personally I’d prefer to watch this, just for the tragic outfits. I still love Salt n Pepa, “watta man, watta man, watta man, watta mighty good man…….”
Posted in Sex and naughty stuff on November 24th, 2008 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments
Cleo’s Next Top Blogger
Sex and the 30’s made it into the top 8 finalists for Cleo magazines
Next Top Blogger competition.
Posted in Media on November 20th, 2008 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments
Keeping up Appearances
Recently looking at a photo of a man or should I say gorilla, I commented to a friend that I wouldn’t go out with him because he was too hairy. And I’m talking all over head to toe black hair. My friend very politely commented that sometimes “beggars can’t be choosers”! Was I being unfair? Are looks the most important thing when looking at potential partners?
Well firstly I do think beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what I find attractive may differ from the next woman. I have a thing for curly hair, nice teeth and the ability to hold a conversation with me. My girlfriend on the other hand only dates guys built like a mack truck, no conversation necessary. And lets face it we aren’t all Megan Gale and Johnny Depp lookalikes (two of my fantasy people}. According to a study called Real People, Real Answers, 91% of women believe a man’s attitude is more important than his looks. This is not giving men permission to stop shaving, wear thongs with socks or let go of that slow developing beer belly! Women still want the whole package which includes a man who dresses well, is well groomed and can hold a conversation, amongst other things. As I’ve said before being a good kisser is way up there on my list of requirements!
So what do men look for in women? According to the survey 63% of men prefer women with curves. Hallelujah! So I can stop eating lettuce and pounding the pavement for hours on end {as if!}. But it’s good to know we don’t all have to be a thin leggy blond with big boobs, great smile, long legs, and the list goes on. Men would definately look at a woman like this if she walked past but wouldn’t necessarily want to seriously date her . I have asked a few male friends if they agree with this. They all agreed it would be great to date a stunner for a while but they would end up feeling jealous of other guys gawking. And would be more comfortable with someone with a comparable level of attractivness. In other words not better looking than them!
So while looks are important, they soon fade. If I’ve been on a blind date, I always rate them on whether I wanted to jump across the table and pash them. This is more to do with their personality than their looks. I always say a man can be attractive unll he opens his mouth. Arrogance and stupidity the biggest turn offs. As I’m sure are women who are more in love with themselves and the mirror.
So when finding love it’s not all about looks but I’m sticking to my no extra hairy men requirement. Although with the waxing available these days…..
Posted in Dating, Love and Relationships on November 20th, 2008 by Blog Admin | | 2 Comments
