The Be Be
I recently received a comment on this site showing me a new product available for women, and asking me if I would like to receive and review it. It was a product relevant and well suited to my site. Well, that got my interest! So I went and had a look at the website and then eagerly awaited my delivery. When i got the notice from the post office, I very quickly went to retrieve my package. Knowing what was inside I had a sly little smile on my face, if only thay all knew what I was picking up. Not a present form Granny thats for sure. Ok I know the suspense is killing you. Let me tell you a bit about The Be Be, as shown above.
“Discreet and stylish! Compact and glamorous! The Be Be is the first intimate massager you’ll be confident enough to carry around in your handbag and the only massager you won’t be afraid to leave on your bedside table!” Thats how the Australian creators Lisa Hughes and Kristine Morgan describe it on their website. At first I was a little confused, thinking, Is this a vibrator? Well it’s more of an “intimate massager”, designed for external (non penetrative) use. Basically it can be used on all erogenous zones from the clitoris, neck and shoulders down to the thighs and feet. I must say once it used on the clitoris, forget the rest!
I love that it comes in a little satin pouch in a stylish case, almost like a sunglasses case. It is very discreet, if someone stumbled across it in your bag, at first glance they wouldn’t think twice about it being a massager. It also keeps in with my purple theme, remember discussions about my vibrator the “purple penguin”? It matches nicely. I happened to have a spa party at mine the afternoon I received my new toy,what better place to show it off. A room full of women pampering themselves and gossiping about sex and men. Of course I hadn’t sampled the product yet, I did give a few neck massages to the girls who were all rapt. Once I had shown it off it was for my use only. And I must say Im impressed.
I would say most women my age own a vibrator and if they don’t, get one! I myself (ok Im getting personal here, Mum don’t read this bit) prefer the added clitoris stimulator on a vibrator like on The famous “Rabbit” seen on Sex and the City. I’ve talked about this previously and the girls even mention it on the Be Be site. Most women will not orgasm through penetration alone in fact “research has found 70% of women climax through external stimulation? So this is perfect for just that. It is the right size, shape and you can control the speed of the vibrating, after all it is a very sensitive area. It’s not a big scary looking penis shape, so your partner won’t be scared of it, he may even like to use it on you. Anyway, lets just say I love it, get online and get yourself one,and no I don’t make commision from this I just love it!
Please visit the link below it’s $119.90 well spent!
Posted in Media, Sex and naughty stuff, Uncategorized on August 27th, 2009 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments
The Big V
Lets talk about the V word, no not vagina but virginity. Yes think back some of you readers, to long ago when you were deflowered, became a woman, and all the other bad terms for losing your virginity. Yes Madonna sang about it and shocked the world, ”Like a virgin, touched for the very first time”. For many there’s a story about it both good and bad. But for most it is an event you never forget.
The reason I started thinking about it was the recent controversy in Britain, surrounding a 12 year old boy, who at the time was thought to have fathered a baby with a 15 year old girl. Oh my god how the times are changing, or am I just a prude. But at 12 I was still secretly playing with Barbie and with the help of Ken pretending I knew what sex was. Even at 15, I was still quiet shy with the opposite sex and certainly hadn’t gone past first base! What is too young? I myself think it is better to wait until you have met someone special, and are comfortable with your body and totally in control of your decisions.
I have a friend whose daughter is 14, and I have heard many stories about her friends, which make me cringe and worry. If I had a daughter she’d be locked up until adulthood, that being at least 18! When did girls start to lose their virginity at 12 and 13? Surely that’s not typical in my era. According to a 2007 survey done by Durex, “People worldwide are having sex for the first time at an average age of 17.3. Just over a third (35%) say they were 16 or under when they lost their virginity. Young people continue to have sex at an earlier age than previous generations: while the 25-34s lost their virginity at 17.9, the 21-24 year olds were 17.5 and 16-20 year olds were just 16.3. Women are sexually active earlier than men – at 17.2 compared with 17.5″. Ok so the younger generations are definitely starting earlier, what surprised me is that women are generally younger than men when having sex for the first time. But I think men talk it up more and maybe fib a little to look cool around their mates. Don’t blame them really.
I decided to survey my own group of loyal, ever sharing friends to see how they compared. Most of us are in the 25-34 year old category. The majority of women had sex for the first time around the age of 17. And the men, surprisingly older between 17-19. One friend was 13, but felt it didn’t count because he wasn’t with someone he loved, but coerced by a friend’s older sister. I hear all you men saying, “ I wish”, but really is 13 old enough to deal with the responsibility and emotional stress of first time sex? I mean, at that age the word vagina and penis still makes you fall over in hysterics.
I was 19 and in a relationship with my first serious boyfriend. I remember it being a huge thing and making him wait 4 months. Ok I didn’t get to wear white at my Wedding, but I certainly waited till I was mentally ready. For a woman it’s not necessarily a comfortable or pleasurable thing. Your nervous, scared, often under the influence of alcohol (ok I admit I was), and it can be quiet embarrassing. We have all heard and told the stories about the fumbling, not quiet knowing were the right hole is. This doesn’t really change with age either! But it is a sacred thing to a lot of people, and you don’t just want to give it away. Having said that, recently a 22 year old woman put her virginity up for sale on Ebay and received bids of up to 3.7 million dollars. Firstly who are the perverts who bid! And secondly, why? To pay for her studies of course. What happened to having morals? Maybe I am a prude but some things are meant to be sacred and your virginity is one of them.
Posted in Media, Sex and naughty stuff on July 10th, 2009 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments
New Networking Site- Sassymamas
Hi all, I recently joined a new webste called sassymamas “where women of influence, mumfluence, & blogfluence love to sass!”
This is a new social networking site. It is a “sassy new hangout where netwomen can blog, create, laugh, cry, sell, chat, fave, meet old BFF’s & new, + shop til they drop. Get sassy today, mama”.
Please visit the link below and pass it on!
Posted in Life, Media on March 5th, 2009 by Blog Admin | | 1 Comments
Online Interview
I was recently interviewed by former Mix 106 FM radio executive producer Brenden Wood for his website, “Is it possible to make money online?”. Follow the link below to listen to the discussion about how my blog came about, where I get my content, and answers to many questions you may have yourself. And a picture of me, so now I’m not so anonymous!
Posted in Media on February 17th, 2009 by Blog Admin | | 2 Comments
Cleo’s Next Top Blogger
Sex and the 30’s made it into the top 8 finalists for Cleo magazines
Next Top Blogger competition.
Posted in Media on November 20th, 2008 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments
