Lets Talk About Sex….Again
I saw an article in the The Daily Telegraph which caught my eye. “Sex lives of Australian women”, which led to a book by the same name. It involved the findings of a major online survey regarding sex and women in Australia. Around 2000 women were surveyed, and the results are interesting. Firstly a woman apparently has an average of 13 different sexual partners in her life. Phew, glad I make that category. But really how true is it? We all know what they say, women half it, men double it. But thats our secret. Let me share with you a few other interesting findings.
ONE in four women view pornography regularly; does perving in the locker room during half time of a footy game on T.V count?
MOST women (61 per cent) masturbate at least once a month; mmmm, well have you seen the toys out there these day’s, why wouldn’t you.
ONE in five have starred in their own sex tape; uh uh, not going to happen. Any video that comes near my naked body will end up jammed somewhere painful. Who really wants to watch themselves having sex?? Other than celebrities of course.
MULTIPLE partners are a growing fad; not sure if this means at once, or one after the other. But gee are we turing into men!
MANY complain of boring sex lives and one in three rarely, if ever, experience orgasm; well they need to read my blog more for tips. Or get a new partner who knows what he’s doing.
ALMOST half (49 per cent) say they want sex most of the time when it is offered. I must say, I don’t often knock back sex, but I am in my 30’s which is apparently in my prime. And the humping like rabbits when in a fresh relationship doesn’t last forever, so I say make the most of it.
It also states that women want more emotional intimacy before sex, and need to understand their voice is there most important sexual organ. In otherwords tell him what you want. He won’t know if you don’t tell him! This basically leads to women faking orgasms regularly, (as seen in the above clip, which I love from “When Harry met Sally”). 1 in 10 women do fake it almost everytime, according to another survey reported in the Daily Mail. Which doesn’t say a lot for the male lovers of the world.
So what that tells me is, women out there need to take control, ask for what you want, watch plenty of porn, tape yourself having (drunk) sex, masturbate regularly and you’ll be happy in your relationship. Sounds so easy!
Posted in In the News, Sex and naughty stuff on April 8th, 2010 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments
The Most Beautiful Man in the World ???
Just a little something to make you smile on a Monday. He’s Greek and he’s 36. His name is Saki Rouva, and he has been voted the most beautiful man in the world. I can’t seem to find, who voted, but I must say he is a very fine specimen of man. Well I wouldn’t kick him out of bed. He is a singer, songwriter, model, actor. He recently came 7th representing Greece in the Euro songvision contest. But alas, he’s not single. Oh but we can look.
Close your mouth girls, stop drooling and get back to work 
Posted in In the News on August 10th, 2009 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments
The Number Game.
How many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime? This was the question I recently put to all my faithful and loyal readers and friends. At first I wondered if the question was a bit to personal, but considering all the responses I received, I believe not. In the news recently French First Lady and former supermodel Carla Bruni-Sarkozy caused upset by releasing a song called “my 30 lovers”, which was thought to refer to how many men she had slept with before she married the French President. She in fact says it was more like 15, but 30 actually sounded better in the song. Now, she is a 40 year old woman, divorced with a child. Is 15 a lot of sexual partners? I think not, but my tally has already exceeded this and I am in my early 30’s (still). Your thoughts on this really depends on your own total. This got me thinking, dangerous indeed, what is the average tally? How do my friends compare? So I surveyed my friends whose ages range from around 26 – 45, being very generous with the ratios so they felt more inclined to answer!
The catergories were:
A) 0 – 15
B) 15 – 40
C) 40 – 80
D) Too many to name
Catergory A was the most common answer from both men and women. Mainly from people in long term steady relationships in their 30’s. Myself and a few other females all single in their 30’s obviously out having fun fit into catergory B. An equal amount of both sexes land in Catergory C. Not surprisingly they are all either divorced, with kids, and in their 40’s. One particular girlfriend answered C “to the best of her knowledge”. So Carla you have nothing to worry about! Catergory D basically went to the football team! My friends ex tells us he and his mates have all slept with at least 100 women, roughly. Gee how surprising.
Of course this may not be a true indication as there is a general rule that women halve their total while men double it! I was recently asked by a partner how many men I had slept with. I told him that is a question you should never ask a woman. And then I lied and halved it! Society still seems to look down upon promiscuous women calling them all sorts of names, skanky, hoe, tart, scrubber all come to mind. Oh that brings back memories of high school name calling. Whilst I believe men are still called studs, and slapped on the back for scoring a big tally, but thats my opinon of course. I wasn’t that surprised by the totals and believe them to be true indications according to each persons history, lifestyle and age.
Funny, I should have put a catergory E, as I got a few answers that read, “not enough”. Mostly from the long term married men. As they say “the grass is always greener”. You so don’t want to be back out in the single world, it’s hard work!
Posted in In the News, Sex and naughty stuff on December 16th, 2008 by Blog Admin | | 1 Comments
Lets Talk About Sex….
“Lets talk about sex baby, lets talk about you and me. Lets talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be…..”. The bad things Salt N Pepa (gee I love them) were talking about could be being arrested for having sex in a public place.
Recently in the news 2 British people were arrested for having sex on the beach in Dubai. They had been drinking and of course one thing led to another and they decided to have a bit of fun on the beach. Not so good in a country where it is against their culture for women to show skin let alone have sex in public. The couple were found guilty and ordered to pay a fine of 1000 Dirhams, ($350) and serve 3 months in a Dubai prison. They are to be jailed and deported for unmarried sex and public indecency. A little harsh I think, maybe the fine and a warning. I definately won’t be going there in a hurry.
It did get me thinking about sex in public places and wondering how often and where it happens. So I decided to survey my friends to find out the most unusual place they have had sex, promising anonymity of course! Some are braver than others and it opened my eyes to the opportunities available lol. Here’s a list of a few of the more daring-
* The steps of the Opera House. (from a male)
* Front lawn of an unknown person, falling asleep only to wake and discover it was 5 doors down from the boyfriends.
* Disabled toilets. Although football players are quiet willing to use any toilet! (another male)
* On a train in London (again from a male)
* On the roof or a house after watching the fireworks. Dangerous but so romantic.
* Up against a villa in Tuscany with the tour bus driver. Talk about doing Europe! (a girl of course).
* In a thermal hot springs in Rotorua, New Zealand. And I mean hot!
So basically most of my friends should have been arrested and deported. Lucky for us we live in a more tolerable country. And men will basically have sex anywhere. And definitely stay away form those Footy players and public toilets!!!
Please feel free to add more in the comments section. Anonymous of course!
Posted in In the News, Sex and naughty stuff on October 30th, 2008 by Blog Admin | | 5 Comments
Man Drought
According to Demographer Bernard Salt – the highest ratio of single men to women is in Singleton, in the Hunter Valley, where there are 2 boys for every girl. SINGLETON! Isn’t it Ironic? Don’t you think? It’s like rain on your wedding day, a free ride when you’re already there, some good advice…. Sorry got carried away there; don’t you just love Alanis? Or if you’re keen to move to Glendon in QLD there are apparently 23 men to each woman. Well, gee what am I doing living in Sydney?
The last few weeks it’s been widely reported in the media, just to rub it in a bit more, (on the eve of my 34th birthday) that there is a man shortage in NSW. Well tell me something I don’t know. According again to Demographer Bernard Salt whose book; Man Drought and other social issues of the new century, ”women will find it easier to snare themselves a man during their 20’s and up to the age of 33, with an oversupply of men in their age group”. This is of course assuming I would want to date a man older than me! This same article said, “25 is the ideal age for ladies to take their pick of gents, when there’s 25 per cent more single men than women”. So looks like I’m about to become a cougar, which of course is an older woman, who dates a man at least 8 years younger than herself. Perfect there seems to be heaps of them available; I can have my pick of the litter. Hopefully they’re at least toilet trained so to speak.
I’ve really been thinking about this lately and I don’t think the problem is the short supply of men around 34 but where they are in their life. From my experience men around this age, if single, have often come out of or have been in a long-term relationship, whether it be married or de facto. If they are separated or divorced the last thing they want to do is get back in that type of relationship. Lets be serious if they can go out have fun with the boys, have one night stands and just enjoy the good life like a 20 year old, why would they want a girlfriend? Whereas the younger 20 to 29-year-old seem to like the older woman, and are far more interested in dating seriously. I asked a guy who is dating my girlfriend, (there is 12 years difference) why he is interested in being with someone so much older. For him part of the reason was that she was independent, confident about her looks and personality and wasn’t worried about what other people thought. Who knows if this will be long term but for the moment I say go for it, because apparently older women dating younger men is in and acceptable. Also, because we are in a man drought we might just have to ignore age gaps and enjoy life and dating for what it is. Kate Cebrano sang it well, “Young boys are my weakness”.
Posted in Age, In the News on September 4th, 2008 by Blog Admin | | 0 Comments
